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The Approach
Men’s Dating Reality
Have you ever seen that woman across a bar? The one you would give anything to
talk to? You know, the one with the hot body and pretty face. You probably
didn’t have the guts to talk to her anyway, right? Well, just to make you feel better,
let me tell you a secret. You wouldn’t have gotten her anyway. If you are too
nervous to speak to her, if you’d be sweating if she walked past you, if your heart
pounds just thinking about buying her a drink, she is out of your league. Only
approach women who do not make you nervous. That’s the level you are on, and
you may even get a date out of it.
Women’s Response
A woman loves a man who seems a bit shy and nervous at first. It’s kind of cute. It
makes her feel more in control and makes her feel as if she has the upper hand. It
doesn’t mean she wouldn’t date the nervous guy; it doesn’t mean she wouldn’t talk to
him; it doesn’t even mean she wouldn’t accept a drink from him. It just means she will
have complete control over him if they do go out. Some women really like that. And
because he will be so honored to be with her, he will go along with everything she says.
How much fun could that be!
Is Talk Really Cheap?
Men’s Dating Reality
Analyzing your relationship on the phone with a friend is pathetic. It’s not going
to change what was said. It’s not going to change what was done. “Why did she do this?” “Why did she say that?” “What does this mean?” “What does that
mean?” Come on, how the hell is your buddy supposed to know? He wasn’t
there. So do your friends a favor, shut up, and go do something productive.
Women’s Response
Analyzing your relationship with a friend is a great way to vent and try to understand
your partner better. It’s always good to hear another perspective from a person who is
not in that situation. When someone who is on the outside looking in is trying to help
you, it’s much clearer to that person because emotions aren’t involved. It’s always hard
to think clearly when you are directly involved in an important circumstance.
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